My Boyfriend Don't Make Love To Me Naturally Again Bcos Of His Mother's Threat

My guy proposed marriage to me. He initially was anxious for me to meet with his mother. Unfortunately, she was out of town within that period. While in school and writing my final examinations, he would call me to come and cook for him. I didn’t mind since we were planning to spend the rest of our lives together. At a time I was becoming worried about his plans for me since we spend most of our time holed in the house.

Finally, she came back and we went to see her. It didn’t go as I expected as she showed so much antagonism towards me. She went as far as making me understand that education in her opinion isn’t the ultimate or not a guarantee that I will end up becoming her daughter-in-law.

She also said marriage between me and her son may not work...

Because we come from different towns. She went further to tell me that I should go in search for a job in the civil service if I truly wanted to be her son’s wife. She said so many things, issued concealed threats as if she was the one who sent me to school.

To make matters worse, my boyfriend said he won’t walk down the aisle in any church; that he would only settle for the traditional marriage ceremony.

He also said until I get a job, I must be on contraceptive whenever we have séx so that I won't get pregnant.

In fact, I’m tired of this relationship. I have stopped calling him as I used to. I’m extremely tired and want to end it all. 

Please your kind advise is needed.

I Rapéd My Daughter So I Can Make It Big ––Father Confesses

A 42-year-old man, Pedro Anegbe, has told an Ebute Meta Magistrate’s Court that a spirit asked him to rapé his 15-year-old daughter in order to get a good job. He said the voice ordred him to rapé the girl shortly after he lost his job and was idle at home.

Mr Anegbe was arraigned on two counts for defiling his 15-year-old daughter (name withheld) at their home on Ifelodun Street, Fatolu Ipaja, Lagos State.

The magistrate, Olanrewaju Olatunji, asked Anegbe why he rapéd his daughter. See his response below:

“I am actually living with my wife and three children. I have two girls and a boy. She is my first born. I have had séx with her just two times. The first was on January 27, 2014. But I cannot remember the date of the second one. 

“I did it because I thought it was God talking to me, but later I knew it was an evil spirit. The voice said I needed power. To get the power, the voice said I must damage some things...

“I started destroying the clutch and brake of the vehicle I was given to drive. Then the voice told me I should stop delivering money to the owner of the vehicle after each day’s work. I stopped and I was sacked. 

“I became idle after I lost my job. The voice came again, saying I should have séx with my daughter or else I would not get another job. That was why I slépt with her.”

The Investigating Police Officer, Sgt. Bakare Murtala, told the court his findings in the course of investigation. “The defendant is the biological father of the girl. She told us her father had sexually harassed her. We asked him about his daughter’s allegation and he confessed to the crime. He said he had rapéd her twice.”

However, despite his admission, Me Anegbe pleaded not guilty to the charge of rape.

The Magistrate asked him: “You have confessed that you raped your daughter, why then did you still say you were not guilty of the crime after the charge was read to you? Don’t you understand the charge or what is the problem?”

He replied: “I am just forcing myself to talk, because the voice said I should not say anything,” Anegbe said.

The magistrate ruled, “This is a bailable offence, but it is a family matter. The defendant is to be remanded in prison pending legal advice from the Directorate of Public Prosecution.”

The matter was adjourned till April 4, 2014, to get the DPP's advise on how to handle the "family matter".

Aisha Falode’s 19-Year Old Son Buried! Mother Pays Tribute To Him

Oloruntoba Oluwadamilola, the 19-year old son of popular broadcaster, Aisha Falode has been buried on Monday, 3rd of March, 2014 in Lagos. Oloruntoba died in Dubai where he was studying when he was pushed down from a 17 storey building by an Arab boy. Read her tribute to him titled, You Are Me, I Am You, below. So sad!

I held you in my arms and my heart burst into a million pieces of joy. It was an indescribable moment. You were adorable as I touched every bit of you. Giddy with joy, I counted your toes, your fingers, tiny and wriggly; a tough bundle of joy. Continue below....

Your innocent gaze upon my face, those two adorable eyes, wide and searching as only a child’s would. All the gems in Arabia would fade into insignificance at the emergence of your presence. My son had come into the world, whole and complete you were. I had looked forward to having my own son. I carried you with pride and honour in my womb for 9 good months. Knowing that you will eventually be born made the discomforts of 9months seem like chewing a candy bar. Here at last you were.

As you grew up into a most interesting young star, you were my joy. In all of my trying moments, knowing that you trusted me and believed in me spurred me through even the roughest terrain. Your childhood was joyful. Your sister and you were my life. You still are my life. Nothing can erase your memory, not a thousand winds or a million rainfalls can replace those memories, not even a fearsome volcano can wipe you from me.

You are me, I am you.

I am devastated, I am pained, I am inconsolable, I am a mother shattered. Who can console me but God? He knows best and did they not say those HE loves HE calls home early?

My son, the curtain fell too early for you, for us. I am in the audience; I cannot jump on the stage where you are. Even if I could, the curtain is drawn already. I cannot reach you. I am tempted to say, why me, but why not me? God loves us. HE took you my bundle of joy, even now I lean on HIM. 

I can see you, stretching out those strong arms, I see you trying to console me, I see you saying: “Mum, it was meant to be, it is not your fault”, I see you. I see you everywhere.

Together, we walked for 19yrs, you brought me joy. You excelled in your academics, you made me a proud mother as you grew into a handsome, responsible, caring, humane, disciplined man. I will forever remember you my son. Those fun times, the times you held me when I was down, like the man of the house, which you became so early in life…I am consoled because I know for sure that you are in the bosom of the LORD.

I know for sure that we will meet again.You have not died, you are only asleep. This thought will keep me going until I behold your delightful presence again. I know you are here for I am you and you are me.

Banky W Gets Raunchy On Set

The pictures were taken during the video shoot of Lil Miss Miss’ new single featuring Banky W. See another photo after the cut.

Mikel Obi & Genevieve Nnaji Co-Star In New Movie

Guess what?...Guess who?....Chelsea football star, Mikel Obi has made his Nollywood debut. Weeks after we posted photos showing the Nigerian soccer star with Genevieve in South Africa, we can now confirm that Mikel was actually in SA to star in an inspirational new movie alongside superstar actress Genevieve Nnaji. The new movie is titled The Journey, and it's sponsored by Amstel Malta.
The Journey centres on the superstars' journey to success; how they started out, the story of their challenges and the glory of where they are now. The movie is to be premiered at the Africa Magic Viewers' Choice Awards on the 8th of March, 2013. Watch the movie trailer below

afterhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tx-UFA-CPrk

Uche Ogbodo Shows Off Her Big Tummy

You all know Uche Ogbodo is pregnant. I reported it before now, and when she confirmed it to a magazine here. Pregnancy sure suits!

Police Rescue Underaged Girls From Brothel In Ibadan

Most of them said they didn't know they would be used as sex workers in Ibadan. They came separately. One of them said she started selling beer for the woman who owns the brothel when she had nowhere to go again after her friend had abandoned her there. But had to join the game in other to be able to pay her Madam’s N1000 a week room fee.

Aside that, they all had one thing in common, they have all lost a parent each and the other is old and in the village. Read their story after the cut and how detectives arrested Madam Helen and her husband after warning them to desist from employing young girls for sex. Read the story after the cut.

Detectives from Anti-Human Trafficking section of the State Criminal Investigation Department, Oyo State Police Command stormed Sharp Corner Hotel, Orita Aperin, Ibadan on Wednesday February 26 and rescued four girls being used for prostitution, two of who were discovered to be under-aged. A couple, Mr Temitope and Mrs Helen Falusi, who were running the brothel, were arrested.

Briefing journalists on Friday at the police headquarters at Eleyele, Ibadan, the state Commissioner of Police, Mohammed Indabawa said that the command received information that the woman and her husband were bringing the young girls from Benin, Edo State to her brothel in Ibadan for prostitution.

“Our detectives went to the brothel at about 5p.m. on Wednesday, February 26 and rescued the victims. They confessed that they were being exploited and made to sleep with different men for a fee, out of which they would pay Helen a fee as rent,” the commissioner said, adding that though the girls gave ages that were above 18, it was discernible that at least two of the four victims were below 18; with the age of the youngest put at 14 or 15 years.

Speaking with Crime Reports, Mr Falusi (45) from Ado Ekiti, Ekiti State said: “I got married to Helen in 2007 and we have one daughter. She had been running the brothel before I married her but because of the love I have for her, and the fact that I didn’t have the wherewithal to change the business, I did not stop her. But I told her to heed the warning of the anti-human trafficking section of the CID that she should not harbour under-aged girls as sex workers.

“When the two girls said to be under-aged came on Sunday and Monday respectively, I noticed that they were young, so I told her to send them back to Benin. We were to send the girls back on Thursday when detectives came to arrest us on Wednesday evening. I don’t run the brothel but I am together with my wife. When the girls come around, they always tell us they are above 18 years.”

Edo-born Helen Falusi also stated that “I started the brothel in 2006. I rented the place and I operated a beer parlour along with the brothel. I don’t allow under-aged girls because of the warning handed over to me by detectives from State CID. Immediately the girls came and I saw they were young, I made up my mind to send them back to Edo State. They were sent to me by their people.

“I don’t collect the money they make from them. All I take is N1000 rent every Monday and if they don’t get customers, they beg me to bear with them. They usually know they are coming to ‘hustle’ because that is the question I always put across to them when they first arrive. They would reply that they are aware of what they are in Ibadan to do. One of them is even a mother of three.”

Crime Reports also spoke to the victims. Below are the responses of two of them:

Princess Igbinedion

I was told I am 20 years old and I was given the name ‘Osas’ when I came to the brothel. My father is dead but my mother is in our village in Edo State. I came to Ibadan on Sunday. Back at the village, I went to a friend’s party where I met a young man. He asked if I was interested in travelling to the city and I answered in affirmative.

He never told me I was coming for prostitution; he said the person he would take me to runs a beer parlour. When I got to Ibadan on Sunday, February 23 and called the number I was given, someone came to pick me at the motor park. In the evening, I noticed that everyone was putting on skimpy dresses. I was told to go and take my bath and dress up in the skimpy dresses I was given but I did not. I could not even come outside. I slapped a young man who entered my room to have sex with me.

However, one man eventually slept with me and he gave me N1,500. Aunty Helen had already told me that I would be paying N1000 every Monday as rent fee. She also has a book where she writes what we make.

Favour Nosakhare

I am known as Tina in the brothel. I am 23 years old but I don’t know the year I was born. My friend, Jennifer, introduced me to prostitution. She told me there is a brothel where a beer parlour is being operated. I agreed to follow her to Ibadan but after taking me to Aunty Helen’s place, she left me and I did not see her again.

Aunty Helen told me to be assisting her to sell beer and I started working as a commercial sex worker. I was doing the job because I have no father again and there was no money to even pay as apprenticeship fee where I was learning fashion designing. My customers used to pay N1000 for short time and between N1100 and N1500 if I am engaged till day break. We don’t allow our customers to have sex with us without protecting themselves with condom.

The Commissioner of Police said that investigation would continue, after which the girls would be handed over to NAPTIP for rehabilitation.

Source

A Woman Can Abort A Baby Who Is A Product Of Rape- Christ Embassy Pastor

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome the General Overseer of Christ Embassy church worldwide has said yesterday during a question and answer session at Christ Embassy's communion service that it is never mentioned anywhere in the bible, to keep a child from a woman who was raped. The general overseer was asked if it was right to abort a baby that is a product of rape and that was the answer he gave.

Why I Love Rolling With Older Men ––Nollywood Actress Queen

Single mum and actress, Queen Blessing Ebiegieson, had an interesting chat with Nation. Enjoy...

Doesn’t the breakup of your relationship with the father of your son confirm the insinuation that Nollywood stars hardly have stable homes?That is a false view. We actresses are just like every other person. As a woman, you would always want your relationship to remain intact. But when you are in a relationship and you are experiencing 70% pains, I will tell the person to quit. It’s not by force. But if it’s 30% pains and 70% happiness, it’s worth staying because you can never get 100% satisfaction - no man is perfect.

Why this unusual obsession for older men?I think that is me. Younger men don’t turn me on. If you are 25 or 30 years old and you are toasting me, then, you are just wasting your time. Maybe because I don’t really like séx and I always think they are after séx. Or maybe they don’t think the way I do. So, it’s bull shit for anybody to think I date older men because of money. That is the person’s business and I don’t give a damn.

Considering the fact that you loved that man, why did you back out of the relationship?

You can love somebody; but sometimes, love is not just enough. If your life is threatened and you end up dying, will you go to heaven and show love to that person? You have to live in order to love.

Considering the age bracket between you and your ex, it’s widely believed that you dated him because of his money. How will you react to this?Love has nothing to do with age, especially when it comes to true love. But we really don’t have true love here in Nigeria. A lot of women go for fancy things. Even the first man in my life was 30 years old when I was 20. He was 10 years older. That was how I started my life. I have never dated my mates or younger men.

You don’t expect me to get entangled with someone who is still in school. What if I get pregnant, who will take care of my child? Where will we live? I’m a realist. That is why I fall in love with someone whom I know can take care of my children. The wrong thing for any woman to do is to get married to anybody who can’t take care of her and her children - that is when you will start thinking of cheating.

UNILAG Big Girl Runs Mad In Lagos

Ladies who go about servicing different men all in the name of "runs" really need to be careful as we now live in dangerous times, where things happen so fast and before you know what's happening to you it could be too late for your health, or worst still, your life.

This is the sad story of a student of the University of Lagos who started madness display while on her way to meet with catch up an "appointment" with a man in the FESTAC area of Lagos...The man she wanted to "service" is no where to be found, now are family are struggling to restore her sanity!

Robbers Storm Church During Sunday Service; 2 Persons Killed Over Tithe and Offering

The quest to make fast cash is really driving men crazy these days, the house of God is not even spared:

A gang of robbers invaded Vine Branch Church on Queen Elizabeth Road, Ibadan, Oyo State on Sunday, killing two policemen. Some church members also sustained injuries as they attempted to flee the scene. 

It was gathered that the robbers attacked the church to snatch Offering and Tithe boxes. The robbers were said to have pretended to be worshippers as they joined the congregation during the service. 

It was learnt that they struck soon after the Tithe and Offerings were collected...

According to Punch, a van with some bank officers and two policemen drove into the church immediately the offerings were collected to take them to safety. When the bank officer entered the church, the robbers were said to have attacked him, but they later realised that he had not taken possession of the money.

Realising they had made a failed attempt, the robbers shot into the air and attacked the policemen waiting in the van outside. They killed the policemen and took away their rifles. The driver was, however, spared because one of the robbers was said to have observed that he was not a policeman.

An eyewitness, who did not give her name, said the entire operation showed a lot of planning by the robbers.

She said, “No one would have expected that the robbers were among the congregation. They must have visited the church more than once during the planning stage to get information on how the church keeps its offerings.

“Many church members did not know until today that the offerings are immediately taken away after they are collected. How these robbers got to know how the church treats the offerings is a mystery. I am sure this was not the first time they worshipped with us.”

The Police in Oyo State say people should not panic that they are on top of the situation.

SEE How People Are Prostrating Before Ex-Minister Orubebe

Is this poverty or what? I just don't get it. Is hunger in Nigeria so bad that matured men and woman will go to any length to show their loyalty to a politician just to get crumbs from him? Elder Godsday Orubebe is one of the Minister that was dropped from President Jonathan's cabinet and he has declared his intention to contest for the governorship of Delta State.

Is this how Elder Orubebe intends to rule the people of Delta State?

Ex-Governor Ohakim's Daughter Weds White Lover

After their traditional marriage last December in Nigeria, daughter of ex-Governor Ikedi Ohakim of Imo State, Adanna Ohakim weds her sweetheart, David Steineker in Germany on Saturday. More photos below...



Congratulations to the beautiful couple

ADULTS ONLY: Maheeda Releases New Raunchy Photos

Rich guys now pay Maheeda heavily for what she is doing. So, she now has a reason to do her bad things...

Pastor Orders Female Members Not To Wear Pants To Church

Indeed wonders shall never end, especially as we're approaching the much talk about end time:

As you read this, a controversial pastor has told ladies attending his church not to wear underwear so they can feel closer to God. The strange order was issued to female members by Reverend Njohi. Female congregants were forbidden from wearing bras and pants to service at Reverend Njohi's church, a ministry known as Lord’s Propeller Redemption Church.

The pastor openly warned that there would be grave consequences for any female member who fails to adhere strictly to his new order. Surprising, most of the women in his church adhered to the order as ladies were are said to have attended service with no underwear, leaving their breast dangling...

Reverend Njohi, whose church is located in Nairobi, Kenya, according to Kenyan Post, said ladies need to feel free in their ‘mind and body’ while in church for "easy access of the spirit".

Why is it that some pastors just like taking advantage of their church members?